If you’ve followed my Sunday blogs for a while, you’ve
probably come to understand that I’m a rolling stone. I don’t sit still in any one place for long. I
come by this trait honestly. Growing up,
My family and I lived in various states across the United States including
Montana, Illinois, Georgia, to name just a few.
No matter where we lived, we traveled, especially during the summer. We saw America. I continually thank my stars that I came from
such wanderlust genes.
I married a Navy man whose family is much like my own. I think they did much more traveling than
mine did, and they did it with four kids in the back of a station wagon. My
hubby still tells stories about sitting in the seat at the back of the wagon
that faced the other cars. I’m sure that
seat had a special name. If you know the
name of the seat, please leave a comment below.
Hell, even if you don’t know the name of the seat, make one up. The answers should be interesting.
I’ll be the first to tell you my memory is God awful. Almost pre-Alzheimer’s kind of bad. But I do have some very clear memories of
traveling as a child. My sister and I
always sat in the back seat of our car.
Inevitably, we also got sick in the back seat of the car. (Just because we loved to travel didn’t mean
we were actually good travelers. Motion
sickness plagues us both to this day. )
Keep in mind most of our travels as a family happened back in the 1970’s,
long before seat belts were mandatory and people really thought about car
safety. Which is why my sister and I
used to sleep in the cramped space between the top of the back seats and the
rear window. Yep. Just thinking about that now makes me cringe
too. We also curled up to sleep on the
floor of the back seat. Why we didn’t
want to nap on the comfort of a cushioned seat is beyond me. I guess we couldn’t
stand the thought of being conventional.
But we were kids. We really didn’t
think about those kinds of things.
Entertaining ourselves while we drove for hours on end was a
big challenge. When we were very small,
we used to make up songs and sing them over and over. I have to wonder if my parents pug ear plugs
in before we left our house. Hearing us
repeat made up, nonsensical songs must have drove them nuts. As we matured, so did our entertainment. I remember playing a game where we were all
assigned a number. As cars passed us going the opposite direction, we pretended
the car was ours based on our number.
IE: the first car that passed us
belonged to the person assigned the number one.
The second car belonged to the person assigned the number two, and so
on. When you’re traveling on a quiet
country road, coming across another car didn’t happen very often, so this game
wasn’t exactly riveting and didn’t last long.
We eventually started playing the alphabet game. In this game each person in the car looked
for letters of the alphabet on anything that had letters including signs,
license plates, etc. The trick to this
game was that you had to find the letters in alphabetical order. Let me tell
you, finding Qs and Zs were always a bitch.
The last game I remember playing was car bingo. My sister and I made bingo cards out of paper
that we marked off into grids. In each
grid space we wrong in something we might see while we traveled, such as a fire
hydrant, a cow, road kill, a barn with something written on its roof. Then we marked off each grid once we saw the
item. Sounds corny, I know, but I promise we spent many happy hours looking for
something dead along the side of the road just so we could mark it off our
card.
Snapshots of our adventures are now priceless treasures. I love sorting through these old pictures and
reliving the moment. We have hundreds of pics of me and my sister, arms wrapped
around each other’s shoulders and grinning like thieves, standing in front of
monuments like Old Faithful, the St. Louis Arch, small cabins near Deadwood,
South Dakota. Good times. Good times.
I’d love to hear about some of your travel memories. What did you do to entertain yourself? What method of travel did you use? Where did you go?
Now get off your computer and go make some great memories
with your family – and remember to take loads of pics.
Until next Sunday - Brenna


Your sleeping arrangements in the back seat of the car reminds me of trips I made to Florida with the family to visit my hubby's parents. At the time we lived in New Jersey and drove to Daytona Beach, Florida. We had just our 2 daughters at this time. We purchased a folding seat extender that made the back seat like a bed. Yes, no seat belt requirements at the time. We pulled out of our driveway at midnight so we would have a few hours of peaceful driving with sleeping kids all comfy in their back seat bed. Yeah right! Those kids didn't sleep a wink until we got to our midway stopping point late in the afternoon.
ReplyDeleteAnd I do remember the "third row" of seating in the back of the station wagon. I don't know what it was called though.
Oh yes. How could I forget about adding mom and dad leaving in the middle of the night to start the trip? I have vivid memories of just going out to the car in my pajamas and getting tucked in the back seat as we slipped out in the cover of darkness. Thanks for the memory, Margie.
DeleteWe always slept in the car if we could get somewhere before dawn, mostly because my dad was too cheap to rent a hotel room. Back when we had the station wagon there was plenty of room to sleep. Once we got a regular car and being the only girl with two older brothers, I tended to get the small spaces to sleep, like on that back shelf crammed in against the rear window. I remember my brothers getting into fights in the station wagon (we even named it Old Betsy) and my mom throwing stuff at them from the front seat. She had pretty good aim too. LOL!
ReplyDeleteBy the way, I think it was called a jump seat. At least that's what we called it.
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